Wednesday, May 16, 2007

How to Kiss a Girl


Don't know exactly what a girl wants? Then find out here!
Steps

1. Set a romantic mood. For example, it's probably not a good time to kiss that girl when you're watching a movie where someone is being killed.
2. Stare into her eyes and move gently closer to her.
3. Put your hand on her cheek and start off with a gentle and slow kiss.
4. Move your hand down slowly to her stomach area and use the other hand to stroke her hair or neck. Then move your hands gently up and down, only a couple of centimeters
5. Start to lie down if you want to go into a more comfortable position, but don't end up putting your entire body weight onto her.
6. Stroke her cheek and move in gently for a soft and gentle kiss.
7. Put your hand on her waist and move it up and down gently a couple of centimeters.
8. It´s often useful to get closer to her so you can feel her body: For example when you lie close to her in a bed. But be careful: In this position it might happen that you forget about anything else and kiss her without thinking before doing it. This sounds very strange but it´s true. You can do nothing against it.


Tips

* Kissing during an on screen kiss during a movie can sometimes be a cheesy idea. Try doing it when you feel most in love.
* It is probably best done in a private place, so that you two feel more comfortable.
* Offering to do it in a bed may make people uncomfortable, and they may feel pressured.
* You can put on some music to set the mood.
* You could try candles, but they can be sometimes a little dangerous.
* Discussing what you and your partner like and dislike helps a lot when heading towards kissing.
* Make sure your breath smells alright -- use mints or gum if you need to. (Note: sometimes the mints or gum may not be enough. In that case, try using a little peroxide before you brush -- don't forget your tongue. And make sure to floss regularly. Most of the time, these steps can eliminate the need for gum or mints.)
* If you have braces, make sure they're clean.
* Talk to her while kissing each other. Girls like it if you whisper nice things. For example you can say something like: "You're beautiful" or "I dreamed of kissing you since I saw you the first time." Practice talking while kissing: It´s important that your lips don't lose contact with hers while talking.


Warnings

* If your girlfriend is tired or not in the passionate mood, don't start the whole heavy breathing kissing thing because she may think you are a lust hungry freak.
* Think before you kiss on a first date
* Remember, friendship first, then love. But be careful to not get stuck in the "Friend's Box" where she doesn't know that you "like her".
* Don't lower your hands too far down if she's not comfortable with it.
* Don't try to go in for a French kiss too quickly- sometimes this can startle a girl and make her feel pressured. PLEASE wait until after the third date!
* Don´t start taking her clothes off: Shy girls may think that you want more than only kissing...
* If she pulls away or wants to stop, DO NOT go for more. It makes her uncomfortable and thats bad.

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